This report has been redacted. Phone numbers, driver's license numbers, dates of birth and addresses have been removed. Oregon State Police Incident: SP19072529 Incident Details: Incident Type:Rape Incident Time:12/17/2016 17:00 - 12/18/2016 04:00 Reported Time:02/27/2019 14:13 Incident Location:550 SW OAK ST, PORTLAND, MULTNOMAH OR USA 97204 (THE COURTYARD BY MARRIOTT) (Beat: PPO, Region: NWR) 97204 Incident Status:Open Summary:On February 25, 2019, an adult female contacted police alleging she had been sexually assaulted/raped by her former boyfriend, a current police officer in the Lincoln County Community, in December of 2016. The incident occurred in Multnomah County, however the victim and suspect reside and are employed in Lincoln County. Newport and Salem OSP/MCS are investigating the case. Involved Persons: Name:BOMAR, BOBBY Gender:Male Classification:Suspect Name:ETHERIDGE, CAMILLE Gender:Female Classification:Victim Name:MURRAY, DAVE Gender:Male Classification:Mentioned Name:ORTIZ, KATIE Gender:Female Classification:Mentioned Name:WEITZEL, SELINA MARIE Gender:Female Classification:Mentioned Name:SABRI, SARAH MOFIDA Gender:Female Classification:Mentioned Name:BRODERICK, DAVID Gender:Male Classification:Mentioned Name:LEROY, IAN CAMERON Gender:Male Classification:Mentioned Name:THOMPSON, MYRA Gender:Female Classification:Mentioned Name:FERDER, FRAN Gender:Female Classification:Mentioned Name:HUMPHREYS, JONATHAN TYLER Gender:Male Classification:Mentioned Name:MALLOY, JASON Gender:Male Classification:Mentioned Involved Property: P19010357 / Police recording / Evidence / AUDIO RECORDING P19010358 / Police recording / Evidence / AUDIO RECORDING P19010360 / Other: Miscellaneous papers/documents / Evidence / [MEDICAL RECORDS] P19010361 / Other: Miscellaneous papers/documents / Evidence / [MEDICAL RECORDS] P19010365 / Other: Miscellaneous papers/documents / Evidence / [MEDICAL RECORDS] P19010366 / Other: Miscellaneous papers/documents / Evidence / [MEDICAL RECORDS] Involved Officers: 9 / SALEM DETECTIVES / OSP140 / OSP / Assignable / 04/08/2019 / 20190408 --:--:--:--- Detective / 9 / HINKLE, STEVEN / #46847 / OSP / Officer / SALEM DETECTIVES / 03/06/2019 / 20190306 --:--:--:--- Detective / 9 / BARRIENTOS, CARLOS / #41614 / OSP / Officer / SALEM DETECTIVES / 03/06/2019 / 20190306 --:--:--:--- Detective; Reporting Officer/Case Lead / 9 / URBIGKEIT, CARLA / #32955 / OSP / Officer / SALEM DETECTIVES / 03/06/2019 / 20190306 --:--:--:--- Other / 9 / LAWSON, MATTHEW / #41626 / OSP / Officer / NW REGION CRIMINAL COMMAND / 02/27/2019 / 20190227 --:--:--:--- Reports: General Report: Author:#32955 URBIGKEIT, CARLA Report Time:03/06/2019 11:29 Entered by:#32955 URBIGKEIT, CARLA Entered Time:03/06/2019 11:29 Narrative: SP19072529 SUBJECT OF THIS REPORT: Rape 1 ORS 163.375, Sodomy 1 ORS 163.405, Sex Abuse 1 ORS 163.427 Public Official Investigation MENTIONED OFFICERS: Matt Lawson, Lieutenant, Oregon State Police, MCS/Salem Steve Hinkle, Sergeant, Oregon State Police, MCS/Salem Carlos Barrientos, Detective, Oregon State Police, MCS/Salem MENTIONED: Camille Etheridge, Victim Robert (aka: Bobby) Bomar, Suspect MENTIONED OTHERS: Ian Leroy, Camille's son Fran Ferder, Gleneden Beach, Lincoln County, Oregon Myra Thompson DNP, Lincoln City, Lincoln County, Oregon Jennifer Hamilton, MD, Corvallis, Benton County, Oregon Arun Ramon, Surgeon, Samaritan Health Services, Lincoln City, Lincoln County, Oregon MENTIONED OFFICERS: Jason Malloy, Newport Police Department, Chief Jon Humphreys, Newport Police Department, Police Officer Dave Broderick, Lincoln City Police Department, Lieutenant DISTRIBUTION: Multnomah County District Attorney's Office, Attn: Nicole Bockelman REFER: Recorded interview of Camille Etheridge, dated February 25, 2019 Recorded interview of pretext phone call between Camille Etheridge and Bobby Bomar, dated February 27, 2019 Medical records from: Dr. Myra Thompson, Dr. Arun Raman, Dr. Fern Ferder and Dr. Jennifer Hamilton Facebook Messenger conversations between Camille Etheridge and Bobby Bomar SUMMARY OF EVENTS: On February 25, 2019 at approximately 2:58pm, Chief Jason Malloy contacted me regarding an adult female in their office who is reporting being raped by a police officer of Lincoln County. I was told the allegations were against Bobby (Robert) Bomar, a Lincoln City Police Sergeant. I was also advised the incident occurred in Portland, Multnomah County, Oregon, on December 17, 2016 when Mr. Bomar was off-duty. I contacted OSP Sergeant Steve Hinkle and OSP Lieutenant Matt Lawson and advised of the allegation. I was advised to proceed with the investigation and OSP Detective Carlos Barrientos would be assisting. ACTION TAKEN: On Monday, February 25, 2019 at approximately 2:58pm, I received a telephone call and a text message from Chief Jason Malloy regarding an adult female in their office who is reporting being raped by a police officer of Lincoln County. Chief Malloy advised the police officer mentioned was not a Newport Police Officer and asked if I could take over the report. I responded to the Newport Police Department at approximately 3:25pm and met the adult female. Officer Humphreys introduced me to Camille Etheridge and he advised we could use the NPD conference room to talk. The following is a summary of what Ms. Etheridge reported to me. The summary does not contain all of the comments made during the interview, nor does it necessarily reflect the chronology of the discussion. For a verbatim account of the interview, refer to the audio recording of the interview in its entirety. After the interview, I transferred a copy of the recording to a CD and entered it into evidence under exhibit CJU/E-1. Ms. Etheridge told me she was with her boyfriend at the time, Bobby Bomar and they had been dating for about three months. She said they first started going out in September 2016. I asked how they met and she said just seeing each other around town. Ms. Etheridge told me she worked for the Mental Health office in Lincoln City and had met him through there. She told me she asked him out for a cup of coffee and it went on from there. She said they had dated for about three months when they decided to go to Portland for the night. She told me that's when it happened and after that they didn't see each other anymore. She told me on December 17th, 2016, she and Bobby arrived in Portland and checked in to the Marriott Hotel in the downtown area. She told me she doesn't remember which Marriott it was. Bobby drove his Toyota pick-up. Ms. Etheridge told me during this time, Bobby was living with a gal named Selina. Bobby told Ms. Etheridge they used to date, but were no longer romantically involved and he just lives with her until he can find a place on his own. Ms. Etheridge said she remembers Bobby telling her this while in Portland. He also said he had to tell Selina he was going to Portland to stay with his sister. Ms. Etheridge thought that was weird lying to Selina if there wasn't anything going on (romantically) with them. Ms. Etheridge knew one of his sisters did in fact live in Portland. Once at the hotel, they unpacked and watched some television before going out. They had walked around a bit and got something small to eat. Ms. Etheridge said they went back to the hotel and left again to go get a drink and eat dinner. She told me the last thing she remembers that evening was them walking to a restaurant/bar called 'The Independent' at approximately 7:00pm. She said it was within walking distance from the hotel, but wasn't too long of a walk. I asked her how she knew what time it was, and she told me she thinks she texted her son and saw the time when she texted him. She ordered one of her favorite drinks, a midori sour, and drank a couple sips then went to go to the bathroom or get some water. When she returned back to where they were sitting, she finished her drink. Not long after finishing her drink, she began feeling very hot and nauseous. She told me she began sweating and felt like she was going to vomit. Ms. Etheridge thinks she even told Bobby she feels like she is going to throw up and she remembers Bobby telling her "I hope you're okay". She told me that was the last thing she remembers. She told me she doesn't even remember leaving the restaurant. Ms. Etheridge told me she couldn't tell me if she walked back to the hotel or if Bobby carried her or what. She told me she doesn't remember anything until waking up to Bobby's penis inside of her anus. She then told me she had never had anal sex with anybody and it hurt. She told me she never gave the indication of wanting anal sex with Bobby. She told me she would never agree to having anal sex. She told me she thinks it's disgusting and she doesn't know where Bobby got the idea that it would be okay. Ms. Etheridge told me she is not a heavy drinker and just drinks socially on occasion. She also told me she has consumed one or two alcoholic beverages before and never became drunk or loopy enough to where she doesn't remember her actions. Ms. Etheridge said she takes medication and it has never affected her in a way, while drinking an alcoholic beverage, where it had made her black out. I asked Ms. Etheridge about their previous sexual activity with each other. She said they had been sexually active before their trip to Portland. I asked if they had sex right away after dating and she told me it was about a month or so before they had sex. I asked if she thought their sexual relationship was good and she said "Yes". I asked if their sex life was pretty traditional or if there were other ways they had sex. She told me it was pretty typical, no bondage or anything crazy like that. I asked if anything disturbed her or made her concerned about being with Bobby intimately and she told me nothing had raised a red flag with Bobby. She told me even when she has tried to ask Bobby about what he did to her in Portland, "...He has never been a jerk or anything, but his whole thing right here was enough to make him a bad person in my eyes". Ms. Etheridge continued explaining that when she came to, she was naked on the hotel bed with her face on the pillow and Bobby's penis was inside of her anus. She was on her stomach and felt Bobby's hand between her shoulder blades, holding her against the bed. She said it took a few moments to figure out what was going on and she said she was just "blown away". I asked how long he stayed inside of her when she came to and she said she thinks he was finishing up because she could tell he ejaculated inside of her. She estimated the time she felt him inside of her was probably around 30-40 seconds. She told me she had no idea how long he had been doing it before she came to. I asked if it was painful and she said it was. I asked if she remember him saying anything and she said she doesn't remember. I asked her if she said anything to Bobby and she told me she doesn't remember saying anything to him, but thinks she was moaning in pain. She told me he pulled out of her anus and laid down on the bed with his back to her. She slowly go up and turned around and sat down on her butt and that's when she noticed that there was blood on the other side of the bed. Ms. Etheridge said it looked dryish and that made her think how long he had been doing this to her. She told me she didn't remember any of it. She noticed there was blood underneath her where she had been sitting on the bed. She told me she covered herself up, laid back down with her back to Bobby and cried til she fell asleep. I asked Ms. Etheridge if lights were on in the room and she said it wasn't pitch dark, but it was somewhat lit by indirect lighting. She didn't know from where. She also said she looked at the digital clock and thought she saw it displayed the time, 1:30am. She told me when she arrived back home the following day, she was still shocked and confused about what he did to her. She thought she should report what happened to the police, but changed her mind. She told me, "I was afraid to report it because I didn't think anybody would believe me because it's me against a cop". She continued saying she also didn't want the Lincoln City police to mess with her son at her expense. She told me her son, Ian, works for the funeral home and police officers see him regularly when he picks up dead bodies. All she could think of was Bobby hauling Ian off out in the woods and being shot, or harassing him by pulling him over all the time, giving him tickets that he can't afford, "so I just left it alone". She then said, she is embarrassed and humiliated, "But now I'm pissed". She told me no one should be able to get away with what he did to her. I asked Ms. Etheridge to explain in more detail about the next morning, when they woke up. She told me she is till foggy about the next day, but remembers some things. She said Bobby barely spoke to her at all, and thinks he went right in to the bathroom to take a shower. During the drive home, she remembers him asking, "How's your butt?" She couldn't believe he asked her that and she told him, "It hurts really bad". She thinks the drive home was quiet because she doesn't remember a lot of talking. When Bobby drove up to her apartment, he just dropped her off. She said he didn't walk her up to her door, give her a hug or a kiss. She said that was very unusual because he was normally very affectionate. The following three days, she told me they didn't speak to each other at all. She said they went from calling and texting each other multiple times a day, to nothing. Ms. Etheridge said she remembers during this time, she saw him in his patrol car as she was pulling into the Safeway parking lot. He waved at her and kept driving. She thought he would reach out to her at that time, but he didn't. She thinks she sent him a text that day asking him what 's going on and he responded saying he has been busy. She remembers him coming over to her apartment on his lunch break during that same week and they spoke in her kitchen for a couple minutes. Ms. Etheridge said she was unsure of how to act in front of him and didn't know how to feel or what to say. She had loved Bobby and then was confused about what he had done to her. After Bobby left, she texted him and told him she didn't want to see him anymore and she just left it at that. She told me she didn't explain to him why. He just said something like, 'Okay, I understand'. She said it was probably before Christmas when she broke up with him. She told me she feels him distancing himself from her made no sense. She told me before Portland, they talked on the phone, visited in person and texted each other every day. They would often get up early before work and meet at Starbucks and sit in his truck and just talk. So his avoidance of her, she said, was very different from his usual behavior. She told me she feels he was doing this because he knows he did something wrong to her. Ms. Etheridge told me she reached out to her psychologist, Dr. Fran Ferder, on March 21, 2017, advising she really needed to speak with her. Dr. Ferder is a licensed Therapist who previously had an office in Gleneden Beach, Oregon. She has since moved her practice to Salem, Oregon. I asked Ms. Etheridge how long she had seen Dr. Ferder and she told me about three years. From a brief email to Dr. Ferder, Ms. Etheridge explained what happened and how little she remembers. Ms. Etheridge told me Dr. Ferder urged her to report the incident to police, but Ms. Etheridge told her she was too scared to go forward with a report. Ms. Etheridge told me Dr. Ferder offered the services of her brother who is a Private Investigator. She told Ms. Etheridge he could look into it 'under the radar', but Ms. Etheridge figured somehow police would be notified and it would get back to Bobby. Ms. Etheridge continued seeing Dr. Ferder until she was unable to afford the sessions in December of 2017. During the therapy sessions, Ms. Etheridge told Dr. Ferder she was still having painful issues with her rectum and Dr. Ferder recommended her to make an appointment with a medical doctor to make sure she was physically okay. On June 28, 2017 and October 10, 2017, Ms. Etheridge also saw Dr. Jennifer Hamilton in Corvallis, Oregon. Dr. Hamilton is also a licensed Therapist and had been seeing Ms. Etheridge before the incident occurred in December 2016. Ms. Etheridge reported the sexual assault to Dr. Hamilton. I asked Ms. Etheridge to explain her physical symptoms after being penetrated anally. She said besides the random bleeding from her rectum, she also experienced minor fecal incontinence and lower abdominal pain. She told me her incontinence wasn't severe like "horrible explosive", it was more leaking that she couldn't control. She told me she had to wear adult diapers because it would happen at random times. During the months of April and May 2017, Ms. Etheridge consulted medical professionals regarding her signs and symptoms. Dr. Myra Thompson, of Adventist Health Medical Group in Lincoln City, performed routine gynelogical testing on Ms. Etheridge. On April 4, 2017, Dr. Thompson discovered Ms. Etheridge had contracted a sexually transmitted disease, specifically the human papilloma virus (HPV). Due to the several strains of HPV, Ms. Etheridge continued to seek gynelogical testing for updated information. Upon subsequent cervical Papanicolaou (pap) smear testing, the HPV contracted by the STD is still resulting positive results through her cell tests and her lab work is coming back as an abnormal pap. Ms. Etheridge advised she hadn't had sex with anyone for three years until dating Bobby. The pap smears during that time were normal. I asked her if she has had sex with anybody besides Bobby during her relationship with Bobby and she told me "No". I asked her if she had anal sex with anybody else, and she told me "No". I asked if she ever had anal sex in her lifetime and she told me "Absolutely not". I asked Ms. Etheridge if she has had sex with anyone since dating Bobby and she told me "No". Dr. Thompson referred her to Dr. Arun Ramon, of Samaritan Health Services in Lincoln City, due to the rectal incontinence and bleeding. Dr. Raman conducted a colonoscopy and discovered rectal tearing contributing from sexual trauma/penetration. I asked Ms. Etheridge why she waited to see the doctor for her rectal problems and she told me she basically was embarrassed and figured the pain would go away on its own. She told me she didn't want the doctor to think she was 'that way'. The pain and incontinence were not healing, and both her therapist and her gynecologist advised to see a professional. Dr. Thompson recommended Dr. Arun Ramon. Once the tears were discovered being associated with a sexual assault, she asked the doctor’s office if they had to report it and she was told they weren't obligated to report it unless either participant was under 18. I asked Ms. Etheridge what Dr. Ramon did for her treatment and she told me there wasn't much he could do because it was slowly healing on its own. She told me he gave her "Kegel" type exercises to strengthen her muscles. Around July 2017, Ms. Etheridge was also seen for kidney stones. She told me she had kidney stones in the past and saw Dr. Rosencrantz, of Oregon Urology Clinic. The stones were removed and she had no prolonged effects from the procedure. I asked Ms. Etheridge how she feels today, and she told me physically she is fine. Ms. Etheridge told me a couple months had passed when she received a voice message from Bobby on her cell phone. She thinks it was in mid April, 2017. She was at work and didn't answer her cell phone. Bobby had left a long voice message, probably 5-7 minutes, telling her how sorry he was. She quoted him saying, "I'm so sorry for what I did". Ms. Etheridge told me Bobby did not elaborate what he did to her, just that he was sorry for it. She told me she was annoyed at him calling to say sorry and deleted the voice message. She later wished she hadn't deleted the message. She continued saying she had been hesitant to turn him in because she had no proof, and realizes now that the voice message would've been useful. She thought to herself, without proof and reporting what he did to her, she figured she was just putting a 'target on her back'. During the interview, Ms. Etheridge told me she brought some documents of a conversation she had with Bobby regarding what happened in Portland. She said she initiated contact via Facebook Messenger in January of this year. She gave them to me to read. She explained that she had taken screen shots from 'Facebook Messenger' of a conversation she had with Mr. Bomar on January 21, 2019. She told me she couldn't stop thinking about what happened in Portland and wanted answers. She said she took photographs (screen shots) of the conversation because she was telling him how she felt. How she felt raped by him when they were in Portland. His response was odd to her and she kept the conversation on her computer. At one point during the conversation, Ms. Etheridge wrote, "I am not sure what you were thinking that night. Regular sex would have been ok, but not what you did. Regardless of what your intent was, I felt like I had been raped and by someone who said that he wanted to protect me and take care of me". In the same paragraph, Ms. Etheridge wrote, "I just wanted you to know that what you did has nearly broken me". She also informed him of contracting the STD. Mr. Bomar responded by blaming it on his former girlfriend and saying it (the STD) has been on his mind. He also wrote, "I am beyond ashamed and sorry. I feel like a total piece of shit right now". Mr. Bomar did not comment on Ms. Etheridge feeling like she had been raped. Ms. Etheridge responded to his comment and said, "I was there because I wanted to have some time away from town with someone that I loved and wanted to spend time with. I should not have ended up having to be seen by a surgeon for something that I didn't even agree to do. I wasn't even given a choice. Had you been decent enough to wait until I had my wits about me, I would have said no". Mr. Bomar responded by saying, "I don't know how to respond to that, but I understand completely what your saying. And I will say this again, I never meant to hurt you like this. That is sincere". He also asked her if he could meet with her in person for coffee to talk and she asked, "What did you want to talk about?" He responded saying, "Just about how things were miscommunicated. I feel if I don't explain things we will be left back in the unknown. I'm not good at typing my feelings." He continued saying, "What you think of me is important. I swear on my life I never ever wanted to hurt you. And you feeling pain from this really hits me hard." Ms. Etheridge said she did not feel comfortable with seeing him in person because she still had feelings for Bobby and told him seeing him in person would not happen. Ms. Etheridge told me there was more to the conversation that day. She told me there were some comments about him losing his brother and brother-in-law, being at training, traveling back in the snow and some local news. She took screen shots of the entire conversation and gave me a copy of all the screen shots. Ms. Etheridge told me later that she did not know his brother had died. (Please refer to the Facebook Messenger conversation attached to this report). She also had documents of her doctor’s visit in April 2017. Towards the end of the interview. Ms. Etheridge told me she was moving away from Lincoln City on Thursday and her son is moving with her. She told me she felt better about coming forward to police in Newport knowing she isn't in the same city as Mr. Bomar. She appeared very nervous and asked if Bobby will find out before she has a chance to move to Newport. I told her I couldn't promise her that he won't know about the allegation before Thursday. I asked her if she was willing to call Mr. Bomar and ask him about the night in Portland. She said she would be willing to make the call. We spoke about meeting within the next day or two and she said that would be fine. She again reminded me she was moving, but would be available. At 4:30pm, the interview ended and I told Ms. Etheridge I would be in touch with her. I gave her my business card and told her to call me anytime if she had any questions or concerns. She told me she is just concerned about Bobby finding out and harassing her. I told her if anyone tries to contact her, to call me or have them call me. After the interview, I contacted Sergeant Steve Hinkle and advised of the allegation. Sgt. Hinkle advised the Lieutenant and Captain of the criminal division and made the appropriate notifications. CASE STATUS: Case continues. Please refer to subsequent reports following this initial report. Detective Carla Urbigkeit #32955 Supplemental Report: Author:#32955 URBIGKEIT, CARLA Report Time:03/12/2019 11:30 Entered by:#32955 URBIGKEIT, CARLA Entered Time:03/12/2019 11:30 Narrative: SP19072529 SUBJECT OF THIS REPORT: Rape 1 ORS 163.375, Sodomy 1 ORS 163.405, Sex Abuse 1 ORS 163.427 Public Official Investigation MENTIONED OFFICERS: Carlos Barrientos, Detective, Oregon State Police, MCS/Salem MENTIONED: Camille Etheridge, Victim Robert (aka: Bobby) Bomar, Suspect MENTIONED OTHERS: Ian Leroy, Camille's son DISTRIBUTION: Multnomah County District Attorney's Office, Attn: Nicole Bockelman REFER: Recorded interview of Camille Etheridge, dated February 25, 2019 Recorded interview of pretext phone call between Camille Etheridge and Bobby Bomar, dated February 27, 2019 Facebook Messenger conversations between Camille Etheridge and Bobby Bomar SUMMARY OF EVENTS: On February 25, 2019 at approximately 2:58pm, Chief Jason Malloy contacted me regarding an adult female in their office who is reporting being raped by a police officer of Lincoln County. I was told the allegations were against Bobby (Robert) Bomar, a Lincoln City Police Sergeant. I was also advised the incident occurred in Portland, Multnomah County, Oregon, on December 17, 2016 when Mr. Bomar was off-duty. I contacted OSP Sergeant Steve Hinkle and OSP Lieutenant Matt Lawson and advised of the allegation. I was advised to proceed with the investigation and OSP Detective Carlos Barrientos would be assisting. ACTION TAKEN: Upon obtaining statements from Ms. Etheridge regarding the sexual assault in Portland and the events that took place afterwards, I asked Ms. Etheridge if she would be willing to call Mr. Bomar and having him talk about the incident. She agreed and met myself and Detective Carlos Barrientos at the Oregon State Police office in Newport, Lincoln County, Oregon. I explained how the phone conversation worked and how it was going to be recorded. She seemed nervous and anxious and asked appropriate questions. I told her Detective Barrientos and I would be in the room with her and if she felt uncomfortable or too stressed, to just tell him she needed to go and hang up the phone. I told her we would not be able to hear what Mr. Bomar was saying, only what she was saying. She understood and agreed to call him on her cell phone. At approximately 2:20pm, Ms. Etheridge dialed Mr. Bomar's personal cell phone number. She said this has been his phone number since she has known him. I started the recording. The following is a summary of the conversation between Ms. Etheridge and Mr. Bomar. The summary does not contain all of the comments made during the phone call, nor does it necessarily reflect the chronology of the discussion. For a verbatim account of the phone call, refer to the audio recording of the phone call in its entirety. After the phone call, I transferred a copy of the recording to a CD and entered it into evidence under exhibit CJU/E-2. After three rings, a man answered the phone. Ms. Etheridge asked if it was Bobby and he said "Yeah". She told him it was Camille and he asked how she was. She said "All right" and told him how she is trying to let this go, but needed to ask him what happened that night. He told her that is why he wanted to meet with her for coffee. She told Bobby she couldn't meet him because she was afraid to be around him. Ms. Etheridge became emotional and began crying. She told Bobby she doesn't know what else to do. He told her not to be that way. He said, "I don't need you to be afraid of me. Please Camille, don't, don't be afraid of me". Ms. Etheridge told him that she needed to tell him what happened. Mr. Bomar said "Okay, let me go to a different area". Mr. Bomar then said "...I've been just, I've been tore up over this ever since you reached out to me a month ago. I, it was just, living with this". Ms. Etheridge interrupted him and said she has been living with this for a year and a half and "I guarantee it's been worse for me". Mr. Bomar said, "I had no idea that you were hurt this way. I swear to you, I feel beyond. I'm not, I'm not that person. I, you meant the world to me". Ms. Etheridge told him she wanted to know what happened. Mr. Bomar proceeded to say, "Well, see, that's where... we got there." Ms. Etheridge interrupted and said "Got where?". He told her Portland. She told him she remembers sitting at the bar and nothing after that. Mr. Bomar responded saying, "But, see, we were intimate before the bar". Ms. Etheridge said, "What?". He told her, "We were intimate before we went out for drinks, that's why I don't understand..." She confirmed with him asking, "We had anal sex before going to the bar?". Mr. Bomar said he would never take advantage of her in any way. She then said "Did you hear me? We had anal sex before we went to the bar?" Mr. Bomar responded by saying, "We had, before we went to the bar". Ms. Etheridge said, "There's no way". When Ms. Etheridge told him she was blacked out for hours Mr. Bomar responded by saying he didn't understand that. She told him when she came to, he was in her butt. Then she asked if she did something to make him mad. He told her she's never made him mad. Then he said "I was so confused over everything that happened beyond after that. I had no idea." Ms. Etheridge told him she knows they didn't do it before because the last thing she remembers is being at the bar, then waking up to him "screwing me in the ass". She then added, "...then the next morning you had the fucking nerve to ask me how my butt was". Then said, "What the hell is wrong with you?" Mr. Bomar said, "Camille, Camille please, there was no way that was how it was". Ms. Etheridge said, "I would never ever had agreed to do that". "And you didn't ask me, did we even discuss it?" Mr. Bomar said, "Camille, I was, when we were, when we were, when we were having intercourse, I was talking to you". She told him she was blacked out so how could he have been speaking with her. Mr. Bomar told her he had no idea. Ms. Etheridge asked him how he could not know. He told her, "I did not know. I would never, I would never do that to a human being, uh, ever in my life I've never abused a person". Ms. Etheridge told him they didn't do anything before going to the bar because they weren't at the hotel very long. Mr. Bomar said, "We got there, yeah, it's, I mean, it, it's been a couple of years ago. I just, I'm trying, I've been ,I've been putting this all through my head for about a, over a month now trying to work this out". Mr. Bomar said, "I swear to you, I swear, Camille, I never, ever, ever wanted to violate or hurt you. I promise you". Ms. Etheridge responded by saying, "Well, you did". As Ms. Etheridge was saying she was blacked out, Mr. Bomar kept saying he didn't know. He told her she didn't have that much to drink and he hardly drank anything either. He said, "I had, well, I mean, I remember it was cold out, and I remember getting up and we talked and we went and had coffee. And then it, I, I remember going to Starbucks. I thought, I thought everything was fine". Ms. Etheridge told him she doesn't remember any of that and began crying again. Mr. Bomar told her he doesn't know why she doesn't remember anything. He told her he thought "everything was great". He told her they went to Starbucks, they got coffee, they drove and talked all the way back. Ms. Etheridge said "No we didn't". She said he hardly spoke to her on the way home, dropped her off and then didn't have anything to do with her for a week. Ms. Etheridge told him she thinks it's because "you knew you fucked up". Mr. Bomar replied saying, "No, that is not it. That is so not it. I, I, I'm telling you right now, this, this is not how this is. I swear to you. I swear to you...please, I'm not, I'm not the guy you think I am, I'm not that person". She told him not in a million years would she have agreed to have anal sex. She said she thinks it's disgusting and it was very painful. Mr. Bomar told her he doesn't know where this is coming from. She asked him then why did he call several months later saying how sorry he was over and over again. Mr. Bomar told her, "I called you to say I'm sorry for us. I had no idea. I was calling to say I was sorry that things went the way they went. I was sorry that, that, that we broke up. I was, I was so, uh, I mean, literally. I mean, I talked to you about everything. I, I, I was, I was, I was so surprised and set back by what happened between us". Ms. Etheridge again asked Mr. Bomar, "At what point did I willingly agree to have anal sex? Because I don't remember even being asked. I don't remember having any kind of conversation like that. I don't remember anything after we left the bar". Mr. Bomar responded saying, "I don't know what to say to that". He told her, "I, I am just as in the dark of this as you are when it comes to this. I'm trying to put it together and I had no idea that you felt this way". "I don't like you being upset, and I don't want to feel, I want to figure out a way to work with you to make you, to , to help you through dealing with this, 'cause we're both, now we're both in this. I feel horrible". Ms. Etheridge asked, "Whose, whose big bright idea was it for us to have anal sex?" There was a substantial pause and Mr. Bomar said, "I, I just don't even know what to say to that. I don't". Ms. Etheridge said, "So, then I could say it probably was not my idea then? That's what I'm hearing". Mr. Bomar said, "I don't know what to say. We were, we were everything, I, I, I would never do something like that to you". Mr. Bomar told her he would never do anything to violate her. He said he would never force himself on her. He also told her there were no indications of her being blacked out. He told her, "I would never touch you if you were blacked out". He said they were intimate with each other and he thought everything was going good. He said, "I had no idea this was a problem". He told her he feels extremely horrible for this and he will feel this for the rest of his life. Ms. Etheridge said, "Good, you need to". Mr. Bomar replied, "but that's, that's something I'll, I will wear like a coat, but, but I, it, It's because I feel that, I, that you’re feeling this way, in feeling the stuff that you feel, uh, I, I, 'cause I don't, uh, I, I, I just would never do this to a human being". Ms. Etheridge asked him if he's implying she's losing her mind and he said "No, not at all". He told her he's not saying that. Ms. Etheridge again asked Mr. Bomar, "tell me what the hell happened, because I don't remember anything". He told her, "We went to the bar, we had drinks, we weren't there for very long...we went back to the Motel". Then he said he was under the impression that they were intimate before they went out. She told him, "No, we weren't, and I never, ever would have agreed to have anal sex if I was in my right mind. There is no way". He told Ms. Etheridge he was sorry she feels this way and she told him that doesn't do her any good. She said he needs to be sorry for what he did. Mr. Bomar replied saying, "I am truly sorry for that happening. Yes, yes, I am 100 percent truly sorry for that happening. I had no idea that it was gonna do this". When Ms. Etheridge spoke about their break-up, Mr. Bomar said he thought she didn't want him anymore. He said that's how he felt. He said he never ignored her. She said that was not true. He then told her after they got back from Portland, he had to go to California because his brother "got the death sentence". He said, "literally after we got back". Ms. Etheridge said she didn't hear anything about that. He told her he had to go to California. She asked him why he never told her about that. She told him, "After Portland you just left the state and didn't bother to let me know that". Mr. Bomar said he reached out to her, but she didn't want to see him anymore. She said he ignored her for almost a week before reaching out to her. She said when she came to the realization that he hurt her, she didn't want to see him anymore. She told him, "After being ignored and basically raped in the ass, of course I didn't want anything to do with you". Mr. Bomar said, "I did not rape you...I've never raped a human being in my life". Mr. Bomar said, "And if you were blacked out, it was to, uh, I, I, I get that. I get that that that's how you feel. I totally get that". Ms. Etheridge told him that's not how she feels, that's what happened. He told her he doesn't understand where the blackout came in. I said, "I don't understand where any of this came in, because there was, there was, I mean it was, it, oh my gosh, there are just, I mean, I, I don't know what else to say. I don't, because this is not what it, what it seems to be. I swear, and you're not, I don't understand where any of this come came from. Where the blackout came from". Mr. Bomar said, "...it doesn't make sense, because we conversed, we talked, we laid there". Ms. Etheridge said she doesn't remember any of that. She began telling Mr. Bomar about her symptoms at the table at the restaurant and he asked her if she was implying that he put something in her drink. He said, "Well, I'll take a polygraph. I'll take a polygraph if I have to". He said he would never do that to her. He told her, "And I don't know what else I can say. I don't, I, I never would do this to you. I, I really would never put something in your drink. I would never drug you. I've, I've, that's I, I don't even get that. I don't even know how that even came about and I don't know what to say because there was nothing, I mean". He continued saying, "I wanna be able to work through this with you and try to work through this together. I really really do because I don't want anything bad happening here. I don't want you, when you talk about hurting yourself, I don't, that makes me sick to my stomach". Ms. Etheridge asked Mr. Bomar, "Who took my clothes off?" He responded saying, "I don't know, we were in bed, I mean it was , we had an intimate evening and I didn't know it was like this". During this part of the conversation, there were several long pauses in Mr. Bomar's responses. Ms. Etheridge asked him if he was still there a couple times. Mr. Bomar said he was still there, then said, "I'm just workin this through my head right now. I'm tryin' to work this through so to, to come up with some kind of answers and stuff and I'm replaying it over, goin' and goin' I, I had no, there were no indications of blackin' out. There was, we had a good morning the next morning...I remember going to Starbucks". She asked again if there were discussion about having anal sex. Mr. Bomar said he remembers asking Camille, "Is this okay?" Mr. Bomar then said Camille told him, "Be careful. I just remember bits and pieces of stuff like that and, you know, it was 2 years ago, over 2 years ago...". Ms. Etheridge told him, "There is no way in hell I would ever agree to do that". Mr. Bomar told Ms. Etheridge that he wished she would have spoken to him about this a long time ago so we could work this out instead of wait 2 years later. The conversation led to when Mr. Bomar had to go to his brother in California because he was dying of cancer. He again told Ms. Etheridge that it was right after they got back from Portland. Ms. Etheridge reiterated that he did not even communicate that with her. She said, "...since you love me so much and we were so close that you wouldn't reach out to your girlfriend for some support but you didn't". There was another long pause from Mr. Bomar. Ms. Etheridge asked if he was still there and he said, "Still here, I'm I, I don't know what to say to you about that". Mr. Bomar told Ms. Etheridge, "I just wish I knew how we could work through this". Ms. Etheridge said she was trying to work through this by calling him, but doesn't feel he is being honest with her. Mr. Bomar said, "I am being, I'm being totally transparent and honest with you through this whole thing right now. I am and that's but you, you just, you don't, you don't believe me". Ms. Etheridge asked Mr. Bomar, "Who initiated the sex?" Mr. Bomar said they were talking. He continued saying, "We were both intimate and we were having intercourse and things were goin' great. We were doin' what we would, what we done and things were goin' great between us. We everything was really good. It was nice. We were, we were havin' our, our moment and when other things started, you were okay with it. I asked is this okay? And you were, you said just be careful. Everything was fine. I had no idea that it was, that you were blacked out". Ms. Etheridge said, "That is absolutely fucking absurd". She told him that he was just making him mad now. She told him this isn't helping. Mr. Bomar told her he never meant to hurt her. He said, "...I understand how you feel. What would, I mean , I'm not gonna sit here and lie to you and try to hide stuff. I'm try, I'm, I'm bein', I'm bein very honest with you about this and I'm , I'm trying to so hard try to work through this and I want to work through this with you. I, I, would like nothin' more. I, I, I worry about anything with you, worry about anything happening to you. You, when you talk about, you know, hurting yourself, that... that sucks". Ms. Etheridge interrupted him saying, "You are the one that hurt me the worst so you don't have to worry about any, anything else happening to me. You've done plenty". Mr. Bomar told her how she feels about him really matters to him. She told him that he knows now. So she said goodbye to him and after he said goodbye, she hung up the phone. At 3:06pm, I turned off the digital audio recorder. CASE STATUS: Case continues. Please refer to subsequent reports following this report. Detective Carla Urbigkeit #32955 Supplemental Report: Author:#32955 URBIGKEIT, CARLA Report Time:03/18/2019 13:41 Entered by:#32955 URBIGKEIT, CARLA Entered Time:03/18/2019 13:41 Narrative: SP19072529 SUBJECT OF THIS REPORT: Rape 1 ORS 163.375, Sodomy 1 ORS 163.405, Sex Abuse 1 ORS 163.427 Public Official Investigation MENTIONED OFFICERS: Carlos Barrientos, Detective, Oregon State Police, MCS/Salem MENTIONED: Camille Etheridge, Victim Robert (aka: Bobby) Bomar, Suspect MENTIONED OTHERS: Fran Ferder, Gleneden Beach, Lincoln County, Oregon Myra Thompson DNP, Lincoln City, Lincoln County, Oregon Jennifer Hamilton, MD, Corvallis, Benton County, Oregon Arun Ramon, Surgeon, Samaritan Health Services, Lincoln City, Lincoln County, Oregon DISTRIBUTION: Multnomah County District Attorney's Office, Attn: Nicole Bockelman REFER: Medical records from: Dr. Myra Thompson, Dr. Arun Raman, Dr. Fern Ferder and Dr. Jennifer Hamilton SUMMARY OF EVENTS: On February 25, 2019 at approximately 2:58pm, Chief Jason Malloy contacted me regarding an adult female in their office who is reporting being anally raped by a police officer of Lincoln County. I was told the allegations were against Bobby (Robert) Bomar, a Lincoln City Police Sergeant. I was also advised the incident occurred in Portland, Multnomah County, Oregon, on December 17, 2016 when Mr. Bomar was off-duty. I contacted OSP Sergeant Steve Hinkle and OSP Lieutenant Matt Lawson and advised of the allegation. I was advised to proceed with the investigation and OSP Detective Carlos Barrientos would be assisting. ACTION TAKEN: On Thursday, March 7, 2019, Camille Etheridge consented and signed 'release of information' forms from the following doctor's offices; Adventist Health Bayshore (Dr. Myra Thompson), Samaritan Health Services (Dr. Arun Raman), Catalyst Psychiatry (Dr. Jennifer Hamilton), and TARA Oregon Therapy & Renewal Associates (Dr. Fran Ferder). The following information is a summary of what was disclosed within the documents sent to me either by US Postal service, fax and/or email. Please refer to the complete transcripts and medical records submitted into evidence at the Oregon State Police Newport office. On March 5, 2019, I contacted Dr. Fran Ferder , a clinical psychologist who has known and counseled Ms. Etheridge for approximately 3 years. Ms. Etheridge called Dr. Ferder and gave her consent for me to speak with Dr. Ferder. Dr. Ferder also provided me with correspondence emails between her and Ms. Etheridge. Upon initial telephone contact with Dr. Ferder, she told me she is glad Ms. Etheridge is finally coming forward and reporting this to police, she must feel safe now. Dr. Ferder told me it is common for a victim of sex abuse not to report right away, if ever. Dr. Ferder added that she remembers Ms. Etheridge being adamant about not reporting the abuse to police because she was scared about retaliation. Not to herself necessarily, but to her son who also lived in Lincoln City. Dr. Ferder told me Ms. Etheridge is 'as honest as the day is long' and is a 'survivor'. I asked when Dr. Ferder had knowledge about what Ms. Etheridge is alleging. Dr. Ferder told me she remembers getting an email from Ms. Etheridge asking to speak with Dr. Ferder. Dr. Ferder sent me the email and it is dated March 21, 2017 at 1:56pm. In the email, Ms. Etheridge writes: "The super fantastic police officer that I was seeing and I went up to Portland about 2 months ago for the night. We went out for a drink. I had only 2 mixed drinks. The last thing that I remember was taking a sip of my second drink and then when I "came to", it was about 3 hours later and I was completely naked and he was holding me down by the back of my neck and was sodomizing me. I have been in shock and in somewhat of a daze over it since. I stopped talking to him when we got back. I am not sure if that constitutes rape, but it sure feels like it... not to mention it being extremely physically painful. Even if it could be considered a rape, he is a cop and a highly regarded one at that, so there is no reason to make an enemy of him. I think that he would try to get me back by bothering Ian, not me directly. I will just consider it a lesson learned. I would like to get back into a regular routine with therapy". Ms. Etheridge met with Dr. Ferder the following day. Dr. Ferder remembered Ms. Etheridge clearly being terrified going to police thinking that Bobby would then go after her son, Ian. Dr. Ferder told me she has a brother who is a private investigator, Robert Ferder. She offered Ms. Etheridge his services, that he could possibly see if there is any video surveillance at the restaurant or hotel they had stayed at. Dr. Ferder told me Ms. Etheridge appeared to have thought about it, but told her 'no' a couple days later. Dr. Ferder told me Ms. Etheridge said it would most likely get back to police and Bobby would find out. Ms. Etheridge continued to see Dr. Ferder until her insurance coverage 'ran out' and she was unable to pay for the sessions. On March 7, 2019, I received medical records from Dr. Jennifer Hamilton of 'Catalyst Psychiatry' in Corvallis, Benton County, Oregon. Ms. Etheridge signed a 'release of records' form to allow me to review her medical records with Dr. Hamilton. Ms. Etheridge had seen Dr. Jennifer Hamilton for medication management for her Bipolar disorder, OCD and PTSD since April 2016. On June 28, 2017, during a routine evaluation and maintenance of Ms. Etheridge's previous diagnosis and medication, Ms. Etheridge disclosed to Dr. Hamilton about the sexual assault in December. Dr. Hamilton documented the disclosure in her notes and recommended Ms. Etheridge to continue to see Fran Ferder for therapy. Dr. Hamilton also did not adjust doses or add any medication due to the disclosure. Due to Ms. Etheridge's fear in reporting the December incident to police, Dr. Hamilton urged Ms. Etheridge to try to gain any evidence, even though she doesn't want to pursue anything now. Dr. Hamilton called the Oregon State Police to see if they would be the ones to investigate such a situation and they said the Department of Justice would be the ones. Her notes do not indicate who she spoke with at the Oregon State Police. Several appointments later, Ms. Etheridge discontinued seeing Dr. Hamilton because she could not afford to maintain her sessions with Catalyst Psychiatry. On April 4, 2017, Ms. Etheridge was seen by Dr. Myra Thompson at Adventist Health in Lincoln City. Ms. Etheridge signed a 'release of records' form to allow me to review her medical records with Dr. Thompson. Ms. Etheridge scheduled a routine gynecological exam and also disclosed to Dr. Thompson the sex abuse incident from December 2016. In the doctor's notes, Dr. Thompson wrote, "While on a date in Portland she recalls taking a sip of her drink and then does not recall anything else for hours - woke up being sodomized by the man she was dating. She is refusing to press charges "He is a respected person in the community and no one would believe me anyway" Patient is in counseling and has good support there...She fears retaliation from this person to herself and her son if she speaks up". Ms. Etheridge reported rectal bleeding stating to Dr. Thompson, "now bad enough that she thinks she has started her period. Some rectal incontinence". Later during the appointment, Dr. Thompson wrote, "I did advise her to report this abuse to the state police - not local police - and she will consider this but does not feel safe doing so. She was encouraged to continue with counseling...Permission given to make Dr. Ramen aware of her abuse hx as he will be performing the colonoscopy exam". The results of Ms. Etheridge's pap smear stated a positive specimen for HR HPV infection. Ms. Etheridge has continued to see Dr. Thompson for her gynecological exams subsequent to April 4, 2017. On May 24, 2017, Ms. Etheridge was referred to Dr. Arun Raman at Samaritan Health Services in Lincoln City and underwent a rectal exam under anesthesia (colonoscopy) with Dr. Raman. Ms. Etheridge signed a 'release of records' form to allow me to review her medical records with Dr. Raman. Patient admission information summarized the appointment occurring on May 24, 2017. The appointment reason was listed as 'hemorrhage of anus and rectum and incontinence of feces'. Dr. Raman indicates in his notes before the exam, "We will do an EUA (exam under anesthesia) and check for internal hemorrhoids, and any evidence of anorectal trauma. It's been 5 months and this might be hard to assess". He also writes, "Due to the nature of her trauma, I don't think a colonoscopy would be high yield for a cause of bleeding - it's likely all from the anorectal area". Upon speaking with Dr. Raman on March 20, 2019 by telephone, he told me a colonoscopy examines three feet into the intestine; due to the nature of her trauma, he would probably only need to look in the rectum, which is 20 cm. After the exam, Dr. Raman wrote notes pertaining to the procedure in detail. Dr. Raman wrote, 'A rectal exam was performed and no abnormalities were noted', 'we noted small low internal hemorrhoids in the left lateral and right anterior positions', 'There was no active bleeding', 'There was a small 1mm posterior mucosal tear but no significant fissures', 'No foreign bodies were noted'. The disposition of the rectal exam was to continue high fiber, reassess in 4-6 weeks, and if still has concerns then might need colorectal surgery consultation. Upon speaking with Dr. Raman, I asked about the exam and his findings more specifically. He told me he remembers Ms. Etheridge very vividly and remembers their conversation. He told me when Ms. Etheridge came in to his office, she advised him her symptoms and gave a brief statement as to how it occurred. He said she didn't go into details, but did say she was sexually assaulted. Dr. Raman asked if she reported it to police, if she felt safe. She said she was safe, but had concerns about the person who did this to her and didn't report it to police. Dr. Raman gave her some counseling options, but they did not get into specifics about what happened. Because the alleged trauma occurred five months prior, He told me the procedure was not a sexual assault exam, and it was not his intent to confirm a sexual assault. He said when patients report rectal bleeding, they can be attributed to hemorrhoids and/or fissures (a tiny little tear typically from constipation), usually the patient is examined with a finger in the exam room. Dr. Raman discussed this with Ms. Etheridge and she advised she would not be comfortable with that and asked if the exam could be done by anesthesia and Dr. Raman said absolutely that can be done. During the colonoscopy exam, Dr. Raman noted small hemorrhoids and a tiny fissure. I asked Dr. Raman about the exam findings and his conclusions. I told Dr. Raman I was reading the 'patient admission information' page regarding the 'final diagnoses' from Ms. Etheridges's colonoscopy and asked him how the sexual abuse had been confirmed. Within this page the results are coded; K62.5 [Principal] Hemorrhage of anus and rectum, R15.9 Full incontinence of feces, T74.21XS Adult sexual abuse, confirmed, sequela, and K64.8 Other hemorrhoids. Dr. Raman advised he did not note his findings of sexual abuse were confirmed. He was unable to locate the page I was referring to but informed me that the hospitals computer system only allows certain categories for documentation and billing purposes. His coding for diagnosis is different. He stated to me his medical findings were labelled as such; 'Hemorrhage of rectum and anus [K62.5], Incontinence of feces, unspecified fecal incontinence type [R15.9], Sexual assault of adult, initial encounter [T74.21XA]'. I observed this page he was referring and also noticed his information was electronically signed by him. The 'patient admission information' page was not. We both were aware of the discrepancy and he assured me his notes were accurate as to what he documented after the procedure. Dr. Raman told me there was no objective evidence of a sexual assault five months later. Dr. Raman told me he did not find any evidence to the complications of the alleged trauma, not to say that it couldn't have happened. Dr. Raman explained the blood Ms. Etheridge was experiencing could have been caused from an existing hemorrhoid, which is just a blood vessel, that may have been irritated by trauma or an assault. She may have never have known she had hemorrhoids until the alleged assault occurred. Dr. Raman told me he did not find any evidence to the complications to the alleged trauma, not to say that it couldn't have happened. I asked him how resilient the rectum is and if he could 'tell' if someone had anal intercourse. Dr. Raman told me he would not be able to tell if someone had anal sex. He continued saying the anal sphincter muscle is extremely pliable. He said if these muscles were relaxed and there was plenty of lubrication, something as big as a fist could be inserted into this area and it would go back to normal after being removed. He also told me if an exam was performed right after anal sex, it could be possible to see friction or if it was a violent assault. There is a lot of compliance with that muscle, he said, and there is no guarantee he would be able to see physical evidence immediately after penetration. Dr. Raman told Ms. Etheridge at the end of the exam, if her symptoms continued, he advised she can go forward with more invasive tests and he explained the tests. Ms. Etheridge said she would contact him if the symptoms continued. To Dr. Raman's knowledge, she had not contacted his office since the exam on May 24, 2017. CASE STATUS: Case continues. Please refer to subsequent reports following this report. Detective Carla Urbigkeit #32955 Supplemental Report: Author:#32955 URBIGKEIT, CARLA Report Time:03/27/2019 14:30 Entered by:#32955 URBIGKEIT, CARLA Entered Time:03/27/2019 14:30 Narrative: SP19072529 SUBJECT OF THIS REPORT: Rape 1 ORS 163.375, Sodomy 1 ORS 163.405, Sex Abuse 1 ORS 163.427 Public Official Investigation MENTIONED OFFICERS: Matt Lawson, Lieutenant, Oregon State Police, MCS/Salem Steve Hinkle, Sergeant, Oregon State Police, MCS/Salem Carlos Barrientos, Detective, Oregon State Police, MCS/Salem MENTIONED: Camille Etheridge, Victim Robert (aka: Bobby) Bomar, Suspect MENTIONED OTHERS: Sarah Sabri, Former girlfriend of Mr. Bomar DISTRIBUTION: Multnomah County District Attorney's Office, Attn: Nicole Bockelman SUMMARY OF EVENTS: On February 25, 2019 at approximately 2:58pm, Chief Jason Malloy contacted me regarding an adult female in their office who is reporting being raped by a police officer of Lincoln County. I was told the allegations were against Bobby (Robert) Bomar, a Lincoln City Police Sergeant. I was also advised the incident occurred in Portland, Multnomah County, Oregon, on December 17, 2016 when Mr. Bomar was off-duty. I contacted OSP Sergeant Steve Hinkle and OSP Lieutenant Matt Lawson and advised of the allegation. I was advised to proceed with the investigation and OSP Detective Carlos Barrientos would be assisting. ACTION TAKEN: During the week of March 11, 2019, I was given information regarding a former girlfriend of Bobby Bomar's who may have had a similar experience with Mr. Bomar as Ms. Etheridge. On March 27, 2019, I attempted to contact Sarah Sabri by telephone. Ms. Sabri had worked in Lincoln County and had a serious relationship with Mr. Bomar during 2006-2007. She said their relationship was not publicly known due to their respective jobs. Ms. Sabri had been a Deputy District Attorney and Mr. Bomar was employed at Lincoln City Police Department. I had known Ms. Sabri professionally through the Lincoln County District Attorney's office and I was told through another law enforcement official about her relationship with Mr. Bomar. At approximately 4:25pm, I received a call back from Ms. Sabri. She remembered who I was and agreed to speak with me about their relationship. Ms. Sabri was very curious about the call and why I would be interested in her relationship with Mr. Bomar. I advised Ms. Sabri that I am investigating a female who has come forward alleging Mr. Bomar sexual assaulted her while they were dating in 2016. I told Ms. Sabri I had understood she had a serious relationship with Mr. Bomar and may have observed or experienced odd behavior from Mr. Bomar. Ms. Sabri did not hesitate saying she remembers Bobby not being honest with her regarding his sexual activity while they were dating. She dated Bobby from July 2006 until June 2007. Ms. Sabri admits she was only 24 years old when they were dating and said she was very naive. She told me now looking back on their relationship, it was a toxic relationship for her and she would have broken up with Bobby much earlier. Early on she said Bobby acted like he was hiding things from her, but then would try to convince her otherwise. She told me he kept talking her out of making a big deal about him looking on dating web sites while they were dating, or Ms. Sabri finding female clothing at his house while they were dating. She said Bobby would say, 'it's my sisters' or 'it's my ex-wifes stuff' in explaining why other female clothing was at his place. She gave me an example of his dishonesty by telling me about how Bobby always using her personal computer when he'd stay at her house. Ms. Sabri was curious to what he was viewing and would check his browsing history on her computer but found Bobby deleted the information. Ms. Sabri felt this was odd because he was so secretive about it, so she placed a 'Key Logger' on her computer. This enabled Ms. Sabri to research Bobby's history during the times when he was on her computer. It would also show Bobby's side of a conversation if he was communicating with someone. She told me she doesn't think he knew she did this, but was shocked at what she saw and what he was doing. He had his profile on dating apps and had several conversations, sexual in nature, with females and males, with him saying how there is no one to date at the coast. When she confronted him about the dating apps, he wouldn't answer her questions. Sometimes he would tell her there was nothing to the profile and she was making a big deal about it. Ms. Sabri told Bobby he was hurting her feelings and he would respond by saying, 'I never would want to hurt you'. Sometimes he would use taking his 'Ambien', as an excuse. Ms. Sabri told me she was convinced he was also seeing men romantically. From her computer, she had identified a man locally, intercepting Bobby's conversation with this man, but did not approach Bobby about it. Ms. Sabri told me Bobby and her would have unprotected sex since he had a vasectomy. She told me when they finally did break up, she went to a gynecologist to get tested for STD's, making sure she had not contracted anything. Ms. Sabri then told me there was a time that sticks out in her mind. She paused and told me she has had only two experiences in her lifetime where things were foggy or she felt she was missing bits and pieces of events. One of those experience was in a safe environment when she was traveling with some girlfriends. She did not remember the walk back to their hotel, but nothing questionable happened to her. The other experience was with Bobby. She proceeded to tell me the incident with Bobby that was fuzzy to her. She told me it was early in the relationship, maybe August of 2006. She told me she knew Bobby took Ambien to help him sleep and admitted she didn't know much about the drug. One night she asked him if she could try one because she hadn't been sleeping well. Bobby gave her one of his Ambien. Ms. Sabri told me she and Bobby began to have sex and she said "This was the part where it got foggy". Ms. Sabri said she doesn't remember what happened once they started having sex, but she woke up to being confident she had been anally penetrated. Ms. Sabri told me the last thing she remembers was her and Bobby fooling around, beginning to have vaginal sexual intercourse, but then remembering nothing until waking up the next morning feeling pressure and sensitivity in her rectum. Ms. Sabri said she had never had anal sex before and has not had it since this experience. She also said she has never taken another Ambien either. She told me she didn't bring it up with Bobby and he didn't mention it to her. I asked her why she didn't ask Bobby about it. She told me she feels it was kind of on her since she asked for the Ambien. She admits it was weird that Bobby didn't mention what he had done. She admits she would've acted differently and not tolerated it if that were to have happened today. I asked Ms. Sabri if Bobby ever asked her if they could have anal sex. She told me "No". She told me the closest he ever got to anal anything is when he would fondle her bottom while having vaginal sex. She told me she didn't truly realize how potent the Ambien was until she told me about one night, late, where Bobby left several voice messages on her phone regarding an 'accident' that happened. She told me it was hard to understand what he was saying. He was talking like he had been drinking and she knew he took Ambien. One message would say he thinks he hurt himself. Another message said he was fixing the molding in his house with a power tool and he cut his fingers. Another message would say he's bleeding pretty bad. Ms. Sabri told me he was talking gibberish, but she felt it was serious so she called an ambulance to his house. He left another voice message telling her he thinks he was going to the hospital. When she responded to the hospital, the nurse told her she was concerned as to why Bobby was so 'out of it'. The nurse said his blood alcohol content was too low for him to be impaired. Ms. Sabri told the nurse Bobby usually takes an Ambien at night and the nurse then said 'Oh, that would do it'. Ms. Sabri told me if she would have known about how potent Ambien was, she would have never asked Bobby for one. Ms. Sabri also told me about a time when a married couple from Washington state came down to visit Bobby. She told me this couple happened to be 'swingers' and Ms. Sabri told me Bobby was trying to inquire if she'd be into that too. She told him she wasn't into that. Ms. Sabri remembers at one point, the four of them drinking then going into the hot tub. The couples were 'making out' with their respective partners when she felt she was digitally penetrated. She admits to being a bit buzzed from the alcohol and at that moment, she stopped kissing Bobby and saw both of his hands. She was confused about who was doing that to her and she got out of the hot tub immediately. Ms. Sabri tried to get Bobby to explain whose fingers those were inside of her and Bobby defended his friend, saying it was "absurd" she was accusing his friend of that. He would convince her she was too sensitive, jealous and over-reacting. She told me if she hadn't been drinking she would have left his house. The next morning, Ms. Sabri approached the wife saying she wasn't on board with the 'swingers thing' and the female told her 'okay, some people aren't into it'. Ms. Sabri told me their relationship finally ended in June of 2017 when she came back from a Germany trip with her family. When she got back, Ms. Sabri told me Bobby was acting weird and pretty much told her he didn't have time for a relationship. Not long after they broke up, Ms. Sabri received a job offer to be a Deputy District Attorney in Lane County, so she accepted the job and moved away from Lincoln County. She told me she learned a lot of lessons from this relationship and how awful and manipulating Bobby was. She told me if she would have trusted herself more, she would have left him much earlier. She also told me she went to counseling because of the relationship. In fact, she said, Bobby recommended the same counselor he was seeing. His ex-wife was also seeing this counselor. CASE STATUS: Case continues. Please refer to subsequent reports following this report. Detective Carla Urbigkeit #32955 Supplemental Report: Author:#32955 URBIGKEIT, CARLA Report Time:04/01/2019 12:41 Entered by:#32955 URBIGKEIT, CARLA Entered Time:04/01/2019 12:41 Narrative: SP19072529 SUBJECT OF THIS REPORT: Rape 1 ORS 163.375, Sodomy 1 ORS 163.405, Sex Abuse 1 ORS 163.427 Public Official Investigation MENTIONED OFFICERS: Matt Lawson, Lieutenant, Oregon State Police, MCS/Salem Steve Hinkle, Sergeant, Oregon State Police, MCS/Salem Carlos Barrientos, Detective, Oregon State Police, MCS/Salem MENTIONED: Camille Etheridge, Victim Robert (aka: Bobby) Bomar, Suspect MENTIONED OTHERS: Selina Weitzel, Former girlfriend of Mr. Bomar DISTRIBUTION: Multnomah County District Attorney's Office, Attn: Nicole Bockelman SUMMARY OF EVENTS: On February 25, 2019 at approximately 2:58pm, Chief Jason Malloy contacted me regarding an adult female in their office who is reporting being raped by a police officer of Lincoln County. I was told the allegations were against Bobby (Robert) Bomar, a Lincoln City Police Sergeant. I was also advised the incident occurred in Portland, Multnomah County, Oregon, on December 17, 2016 when Mr. Bomar was off-duty. I contacted OSP Sergeant Steve Hinkle and OSP Lieutenant Matt Lawson and advised of the allegation. I was advised to proceed with the investigation and OSP Detective Carlos Barrientos would be assisting. ACTION TAKEN: During this investigation, I was advised by Camille Etheridge that Bobby Bomar had been romantically involved with a dispatcher from Lincoln City Police Department named Selina, then he moved in with her. Bobby lived with Selina during the same time Ms. Etheridge was dating Bobby. Ms. Etheridge was told by Bobby that their romantic relationship had ended, but he still lived with her. I attempted several times to reach Selina by telephone and on Monday, April 1, 2019, I spoke with Selina Weitzel by telephone. I asked her if I could speak with her regarding her relationship with Bobby Bomar. She said she would speak with me. I told Ms. Weitzel I am investigating allegations from a woman who had dated Bobby during the same time he had lived with her. Ms. Weitzel was reserved and did not discuss her relationship with Bobby in detail. I asked her how long they had dated. Ms. Weitzel told me she and Bobby began dating in about 2015 and continued into 2017. She told me Bobby lived with her until he moved out in March 2017. I asked Ms. Weitzel why they broke up and she said she never understood why he broke up. The last couple of months had been on and off and she felt Bobby lost interest in her, but they stayed together because she thought they were working on their relationship. I asked her what she would say if Bobby said they were just roommates during the months of November through December 2016. She said that would be "untrue". She said they were still 'a couple' until he moved out in March of 2017. Ms. Weitzel told me she suspected Bobby had been seeing another woman and that this information did not surprise her. She told me she had caught him speaking with women on-line, one being in China. I asked Ms. Weitzel if she has ever heard of a woman named Camille and she said, "No". I asked her if Bobby ever told her he was going to Portland for a weekend get-away. She told me that was part of their demise. She explained because of her work hours, she couldn't accompany him to his doctor's appointments in Portland. She said he would tell her he would stay with his sister when he had the appointments. She said she could never go with him. I asked Ms. Weitzel if she remembers Bobby's brother being ill with cancer. She said she remembers. I asked if she remembers Bobby going to California when his brother was dying. She told me she thinks he died after her and Bobby broke up, but she thinks he went to visit him while they were still together. Ms. Weitzel told me she couldn't remember the exact dates, but remembers reading on Facebook how Bobby's brother had died. She told me she didn't go to California with him when he went to visit. I asked how her and Bobby's relationship is now and she said she considers him a friend and would not hesitate to reach out to him if she needed anything. CASE STATUS: Case continues. Please refer to subsequent reports following this report. Detective Carla Urbigkeit #32955 Supplemental Report: Author:#32955 URBIGKEIT, CARLA Report Time:04/01/2019 15:04 Entered by:#32955 URBIGKEIT, CARLA Entered Time:04/01/2019 15:04 Narrative: SP19072529 SUBJECT OF THIS REPORT: Rape 1 ORS 163.375, Sodomy 1 ORS 163.405, Sex Abuse 1 ORS 163.427 Public Official Investigation MENTIONED OFFICERS: Matt Lawson, Lieutenant, Oregon State Police, MCS/Salem Steve Hinkle, Sergeant, Oregon State Police, MCS/Salem Carlos Barrientos, Detective, Oregon State Police, MCS/Salem MENTIONED: Camille Etheridge, Victim Robert (aka: Bobby) Bomar, Suspect MENTIONED OTHERS: Ian Leroy, Camille's son DISTRIBUTION: Multnomah County District Attorney's Office, Attn: Nicole Bockelman SUMMARY OF EVENTS: On February 25, 2019 at approximately 2:58pm, Chief Jason Malloy contacted me regarding an adult female in their office who is reporting being raped by a police officer of Lincoln County. I was told the allegations were against Bobby (Robert) Bomar, a Lincoln City Police Sergeant. I was also advised the incident occurred in Portland, Multnomah County, Oregon, on December 17, 2016 when Mr. Bomar was off-duty. I contacted OSP Sergeant Steve Hinkle and OSP Lieutenant Matt Lawson and advised of the allegation. I was advised to proceed with the investigation and OSP Detective Carlos Barrientos would be assisting. ACTION TAKEN: On March 8, 2019, Camille Etheridge emailed me advising she couldn't sleep and had spoken to her son regarding what happened to her with Bobby Bomar. She told me she would rather have him hear it from her than through the grapevine. Ms. Etheridge told me he told her he remembers her coming home from Portland and sleeping for the rest of the day. I asked if I could have her son's phone number and she gave it to me. On April 1, 2019 at approximately 3:15pm, I contacted Ian Leroy by telephone. I asked him if he remembers when his mother went to Portland for the night with her boyfriend a couple years ago. He said he does. I asked why he remembers that day and Ian told me because his mom never goes anywhere overnight, so it was a rarity. I asked him what he remembers about it. He said he was home when she got home on Saturday around 11:45am-12:30pm. He told me he lived with her in Lincoln City at that time. He remembers looking at her wondering why she was dressed in what looked like "nighties". He said she wasn't wearing normal daytime attire and that was odd for his mom. Ian continued saying his mom came home really "floaty and not usual". She seemed really out of it and sleepy and just went into her room. He said the days that followed, his mom was flinchy and a little on-edge, wanting to be by herself most of the time. I asked if he remembers having any contact with his mom while she was in Portland and he thinks she texted him or called him that Friday night, but can't remember which. He said they communicate quite a bit. Ian told me he is currently living with his mom now in Newport, but is getting ready to move to the valley. CASE STATUS: Case continues. Please refer to subsequent reports following this report. Detective Carla Urbigkeit #32955 Supplemental Report: Author:#32955 URBIGKEIT, CARLA Report Time:04/08/2019 13:09 Entered by:#32955 URBIGKEIT, CARLA Entered Time:04/08/2019 13:09 Narrative: SP19072529 SUBJECT OF THIS REPORT: Rape 1 ORS 163.375, Sodomy 1 ORS 163.405, Sex Abuse 1 ORS 163.427 Public Official Investigation MENTIONED OFFICERS: Matt Lawson, Lieutenant, Oregon State Police, MCS/Salem Steve Hinkle, Sergeant, Oregon State Police, MCS/Salem Carlos Barrientos, Detective, Oregon State Police, MCS/Salem MENTIONED: Camille Etheridge, Victim Robert (aka: Bobby) Bomar, Suspect MENTIONED OTHERS: Katie Ortiz, Operations Manager at the Courtyard Dave Murray, General Manager at the Courtyard DISTRIBUTION: Multnomah County District Attorney's Office, Attn: Nicole Bockelman SUMMARY OF EVENTS: On February 25, 2019 at approximately 2:58pm, Chief Jason Malloy contacted me regarding an adult female in their office who is reporting being raped by a police officer of Lincoln County. I was told the allegations were against Bobby (Robert) Bomar, a Lincoln City Police Sergeant. I was also advised the incident occurred in Portland, Multnomah County, Oregon, on December 17, 2016 when Mr. Bomar was off-duty. I contacted OSP Sergeant Steve Hinkle and OSP Lieutenant Matt Lawson and advised of the allegation. I was advised to proceed with the investigation and OSP Detective Carlos Barrientos would be assisting. ACTION TAKEN: During this investigation, I was advised by Camille Etheridge that Bobby Bomar had reserved a room at the Marriott hotel. Ms. Etheridge was not sure which Marriott they stayed in, as there are several in the Portland area. She told me the hotel was within walking distance to the sports bar, The Independent, where they had dinner. On April 4, 2019, I responded to the Courtyard by Marriott, located at 550 SW Oak Street, in Portland, Multnomah County, Oregon. I asked to speak with the manager and Katie Ortiz came out to meet me. She told me she was the Operations Manager. I told her briefly about the investigation and how I was there to confirm or not confirm a reservation made by Robert Bomar on December 17, 2016. Ms. Ortiz went to a computer and confirmed Mr. Bomar reserved a room at the Courtyard Hotel on December 17, 2016 and he checked out on December 18, 2016. I asked Ms. Ortiz if there were any notes or reports written as to how the room was left. She researched for any staff notes regarding the room Mr. Bomar had stayed in and there were none. No other information was obtained. Ms. Ortiz advised to notify her manager, Dave Murray, if any other information beyond verbal confirmation is needed. CASE STATUS: Venue established. Detective Carla Urbigkeit #32955